Hi!
Today we touch the topic of choosing the right woman for relationship.
I think it’s the most important choice we ever make. Your mate will either put you on top of life and make you happy, or can turn your existence into hell.
I divided the search process into 3 steps.
Step 1: Define what you want from the woman
It’s hard to get somewhere if you don’t know where you are going.
And it’s much easier to achieve the goal if you know WHAT EXACTLY you want.
So first what you need to do is to define the important sides of a woman who you want to see beside you. It can be sexuality, good figure, cooking or else. Write down at least 15 points. Think well.
Also you can write several points which you DON’T want to see in your woman. Recollect your past experience. It can be untidiness, conflict character or bad sex. If such things are important for you – list them.
Now you have the road map of your relationships. You have set the goal.
What next?
Step 2: Search and understand if she meets your demands
You can search for a woman in many ways, even meet her in the street.
If you are looking in a marriage agency, you can comfortable search online by parameters:
http://www.ukrainianfiancee.com/search/
When you are talking to a lady in correspondence, chats or in reality, ask more about those features you’ve listed above. Ask about her interests, routine life, hobbies.
[TIP] How to create a better contact with a woman at a date.
We all like the ones who are similar to us. It’s like the “friend-or-foe” system in a jet.
So find out the interests a woman has and detect your common ones – those can be books, traveling, sports or else. Concentrate on them, talk about them. This will be interesting for both of you and will get you closer much easier.
Talk more with a lady and spend more time. Try to spend it in different places and situations, so you can see how she behaves. Don’t just sit in cafes or restaurants all the time.
Best of all one shows herself in a game. Play poker with her for a good amount of money! (just kidding 🙂 Best of all is something active – play tennis, or go to an amusement park.
There you will see how she behaves in different situations. And if she’s good for you.
Step 3: Detect the “red flags” in her behavior to know her real attitude
– Lateness
If a woman is late to the meetings all the time without serious reasons, it means she doesn’t value you and your time. For me the critical time of lateness is 10 minutes. 15 maximum, maybe because she was making herself beautiful for the meeting. But more than that is neglecting your wishes and time. Of course if you are all the time late too and come even later than her, it’s OK 🙂
– Bad mood
If she always is in bad mood, bad health or depressed, stay away from such woman. In general I’d stay away from the ones who have more problems than you and they are always complaining. Such relationships will be oppressing you.
– Lack of interest
If a lady shows the lack of interest in you, it’s not good for long relationship. No matter how cool you are, maybe you are just not her type. Winning a woman is nice, but frankly, this is not for serious relationship. Otherwise you will need to be winning her all the time. And this type of relationship will just exhaust you. And her too. So it’s perfect when a woman likes you even more than you like her.
I wish you the right choice and great women on your way!
In our Gallery you can choose the best women, who are ready for serious relationship: http://www.ukrainianfiancee.com/ladies/
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In the comments you can write questions and what you want me to write about next time.
Have a good weekend!
Sergey
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